Bea sa breakup nila ni Dominic: We didn’t want to get married anymore
Ni-reveal ni Bea Alonzo na bago pa man sila naghiwalay ni Dominic Roque ay ilang buwan na rin nilang inaayos ang kanilang problema.
“Before we announced it, we had been trying to work things out for months. It’s not like it happened overnight; it was a process for both of us,” pahayag ng aktres sa kanyang panayam sa isang mag.
“I saw myself marrying this man. But sometimes, things don’t go according to plan. Sometimes God’s plan is better, and I have learnt to embrace that,” aniya.
“It always takes two to tango. Sometimes relationships don’t work, and that’s fine,” pahayag pa niya.
Gayunpaman, nagpapasalamat siya sa ex-fiance for acknowledging na may problema sa kanilang relasyon.
Matatandaang sinabi rin ng aktres sa panayam ni Nelson Canlas na hindi siya ang nakipag-break kay Dominic.
“I guess I also have to thank him because had he not been courageous enough actually to acknowledge that there was something wrong in our relationship, I may have continued to be carried away by the pressures of society,” she said.
Ayon pa sa aktres, madalas sa isang breakup ay laging nasisisi ang babae at naaakusahang may pagkakamali.
“(People will say) something is wrong with you, and that’s why men leave you. It’s not always the woman’s fault. The two people in the relationship are the only ones who know the truth. In my case with Dom, we didn’t want to get married anymore. We tried to patch things up, but it did not work,” sey ng aktres.
Matapos ang kanilang breakup announcement, ayon kay Bea, nag-social media detox siya bilang parte ng kanyang coping mechanism.
“For months, I did not check my social media. I had a sort of social media detox for a while, and that helped me a lot in coping and healing,” aniya.
Nagpapasalamat din siya sa mga taong nasa tabi niya during those times na hindi siya iniwan.
“I am grateful for the people around me who were there for me even in the most trying times when I became difficult to understand. My friends and family became an anchor,” she said.
Ngayon ay happy na siya at mas nakilala pa niya ang kanyang sarili.
“I’m happy now. I feel like I know myself better now. I know what kind of noise to cancel out and what kind of advice to absorb. I think the most important thing is to know what adds value to your life, and I’m there now in that space,” pahayag ng aktres.
